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Robert
Munroe Carlton
A celebration of Bob Carlton’s life will
be held
Saturday, March 6th, 2010.
Friends are asked to gather at
Puritan Lawn Memorial Park
185 Lake Street
Peabody, MA
for a 10:00 am funeral procession.
Following the internment with military honors,
please join the family at
Spinelli’s
Route 1 South
Lynnfield, MA
for a luncheon and celebratory gathering to honor
Bob’s long and unique life.

Many
are grieving the loss of a unique and gritty gentleman who
despite his age was young in heart and spirit. Robert (Bob)
Munroe Carlton
of Malden
died peacefully
Wednesday, December 30th, on his own terms, after 86
full years of challenge, adventure, and accomplishment.
Independent and direct, you could always count on him for an
honest opinion and a corny joke. A storyteller, he had an
endless cache of fascinating stories.
He
leaves behind his cherished wife and partner of 56 years, Lois
W. (Reid), his daughter Roberta and her husband John Russell of
Peabody, his son Robert S. Carlton and his wife Susan of ME and
his son Philip A. Carlton of CO. He was also the proud and
boastful grandfather of Katherine Russell and Jacob and Nicholas
Carlton.
Bob led a rich and varied life.
Born at home May 22, 1923, in Malden, he grew up in Medford,
raised by his grandparents, Anna and Albert Turner with
assistance from their daughter Marguerite, his Aunt Peg. All
three were powerful influences and instilled a strong sense of
duty and work ethic in their young and headstrong charge.
He enlisted in the U.S. Army Air
Force during World War II, lying about his age since he was too
young to serve. He became a Tech Sergeant radio operator and
gunner on B24s, and was sent to England. While there Bob was
able to connect with his grandfather’s relatives and form
relationships that would carry over through the generations.
Bob’s strong personality and honest opinions were well known
within the military – characteristics that served him well and
fueled mischief. His crew had the privilege of flying Glenn
Miller and his band to their airbase for a concert, an endeavor
that included a near crash during take off.
While
flying his 30th mission over Germany, his bomber (Rum Dum) was
crippled by flak. The bombardier was killed instantly and the
rest of the crew bailed out.
Bob was 21 years old at the
time. He was quickly captured by the Germans, endured a forced
march from Nuremberg to Moosburg, was imprisoned at a POW camp,
later escaped and made his way to Paris.
He did
not return to England until September 2008, roughly sixty-three
and a half years later, with his wife and three children. He
reunited with relatives and friends, visited his old airfield,
was honored at museums and memorials and signed the Wall of
Honor at his Bomb Group’s Museum. He was humbled by the number
of Britons who wanted to shake his hand and say thank you for
his service and sacrifice.
After
the war, Bob worked briefly in the auto industry and then joined
the U.S. Postal Service, working for most of his career at the
Malden P.O. He rose to become a financial clerk and joined the
Board of Directors for the Boston Postal Credit Union, now the
first Priority Credit Union, and remained an active member of
the board until his death. He greatly valued the friendship and
colleagueship of his fellow board members.
Bob and
Lois married January 10th, 1953 and built their home
in Malden in 1955 on a dirt road. True to his character, Bob
stood in front of the bulldozer to prevent it from razing all
the trees on his property. Consequently, their backyard was
lush, shady, a sanctuary for birds and animals and the site of
frequent parties, cookouts and volleyball games. They’ve been
blessed with caring neighbors who often look in and lend a hand.
Bob and Lois made many memorable trips to places such as Japan,
Thailand, Bonaire and Majorca. To celebrate their 50th
Wedding Anniversary, they traveled by rail across the Canadian
Rockies.
Bob was
a Past Master of Mt.Tabor-Seaview Lodge of Masons and a proud
and active Shriner with a strong commitment to their
philanthropic work. He became a member of the Aleppo Shrine Arab
Patrol in 1953 and rose to the position of Major.
Bob
took great pride in his children’s accomplishments and passed
his love of the outdoors and hunting to his two sons. When the
boys were old enough, Bob began annual hunting trips with one or
both boys. After his son Robert moved to Maine, he continued the
tradition by traveling to Rob’s for a week of hunting. Philip
would make the trip from Colorado whenever possible. The
tradition continued until Bob was 85.
Bob
loved swing music and he and Lois loved to dance. When he died,
a Glen Miller CD was playing in the background and his children
were with him. Bob was a proud and generous man who lived life
fully, didn’t shirk responsibility and made lasting connections
wherever he went. He leaves behind many individuals who are
grateful he was a part of their life.
A
celebration of Bob’s life will be held in February. In
recognition of the wonderful work of the Shriners, donations may
be made to: Shriners Hospitals for Children, Aleppo-Hospital
Transportation Fund, 99 Fordham Road, Wilmington, MA 01887 or
Burns Institute Boston Unit, Shriners Hospital for Crippled
Children, 51 Blossom Street, Boston, MA 02114.
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